commitment in relationship hexagram 44.2.4.5 > 52

I haven’t been yet in a long term relationship. I have to accept that it’s just didn’t happen but also that it was my choice, my unability to commitment.
(My first post on this site was also related to this question and I received important guidance what I am trying to follow.)
Still, I would like to kind of “forgive me” my mistakes and make a fresh start, and trying to correct my way.
I asked “Why I was not able to make a commitment? How I was?”
I received hexagram 44.2.4.5 > 52

The image of the hexagram represents this independent woman who is just going on her way, represents temptation and not recommendable for a relationship. My impression is that I am kind of rigid in contradictory ways, between not taking risks and pushing too much.
Am I right thinking that the solution is to “keep calm” (52?)

Thanks a lot for you insight. And I wish to All a Happy New Year!