Hi all,
I feel silly even posting this reading, but I'm trying to wrap my head around something. I recently had an ex reach out to me to "add me" on Facebook. I haven't talked to him in awhile, and to be honest I was finally, finally getting over him. It's been years. I kind of feel like no contact has probably been the best thing for us. But I made the mistake of creeping on his profile a little, and it seems like he has a girlfriend and everything. Which for some reason infuriates me more. Like LEAVE ME ALONE DUDE!! Ugh. Anyway, I'm just a little perplexed. The last time he came back into my life it was because he was newly single. I just don't understand why he is bothering me. I'm have half a mind to block him. I asked the IChing a couple of questions for clarity..
Why did he add me?
21. 4
What does he want from me?
64.6
I don't really get either of them except that maybe 21 is just saying to break through to creating more solid boundaries with him? Maybe I should block him? And the second casting I'm wondering if it is just referring to his act as spontaneous. Maybe he was drunk? I really shouldn't have looked at his profile, it was just that sad thing where you remember for a second that person that you used to love, and you're like "Hi!" But it was instantly hurtful to look, as I saw that the new girlfriend has met his mother (he would never introduce me) and is riding on his boat. He told me "no girls allowed." He was such a jerk to me. It just makes me mad that he even has the audacity to be happy!
UGHH.
Any insights are appreciated :bows:
I feel silly even posting this reading, but I'm trying to wrap my head around something. I recently had an ex reach out to me to "add me" on Facebook. I haven't talked to him in awhile, and to be honest I was finally, finally getting over him. It's been years. I kind of feel like no contact has probably been the best thing for us. But I made the mistake of creeping on his profile a little, and it seems like he has a girlfriend and everything. Which for some reason infuriates me more. Like LEAVE ME ALONE DUDE!! Ugh. Anyway, I'm just a little perplexed. The last time he came back into my life it was because he was newly single. I just don't understand why he is bothering me. I'm have half a mind to block him. I asked the IChing a couple of questions for clarity..
Why did he add me?
21. 4
What does he want from me?
64.6
I don't really get either of them except that maybe 21 is just saying to break through to creating more solid boundaries with him? Maybe I should block him? And the second casting I'm wondering if it is just referring to his act as spontaneous. Maybe he was drunk? I really shouldn't have looked at his profile, it was just that sad thing where you remember for a second that person that you used to love, and you're like "Hi!" But it was instantly hurtful to look, as I saw that the new girlfriend has met his mother (he would never introduce me) and is riding on his boat. He told me "no girls allowed." He was such a jerk to me. It just makes me mad that he even has the audacity to be happy!
UGHH.
Any insights are appreciated :bows: