Should I I spend the NYE with her? Hexagram 31 unchanging

I am terribly sorry for the bad spacing in this post. I will try writing to admin or change the browser in the future.Here's the story. The girl from my work, who is young and rather inexperienced yet (shes 24, I'm 35) gave me hints that she won't have anyone to spend NYE with. This is the girl who due to her lack of experience allowed to be surrounded with some rather negative/toxic people. I wrote about her some time before- she really reminds me of myself when I was her age. Same false mask worn for social situations and a lot of anger under the surface (her father left the family when she was a teen, she was lacking a strong father figure). She is still not fully over a split with her previous boyfriend and from what I know it was a rather weak relationship- he was weak, childish and there were a lot of arguments and jealously (oh, the magic of youth! ;) ) She is pisces and I am scorpio and even that we have problems with communication sometimes, theres that metaphysical connection between us. I feel her very well on that 'energetic' level, much more than other people somehow. I am somehow attracted to her sexually too. Now the hard part- she reminds me of my mother. Some of her face characteristics point towards this. And my mother is toxic, so I should probably abstain from anyone reminding me of her on some subconscious level... Also, the fact a 24 yo suddenly doesnt have anyone to spend NYE with is rather appealing. Where are her dozens of colleagues? You know, thats how I think about it.I asked whether I should spend the NYE with her? Got I asked if I will be spending it with her, should I escalate sexually? Got I also asked whether I should rather NOT spend it with her? (and for example go to my friends) Got Those are interesting results. Somehow, I sense that every time I consider any sort of intimate/sexual relation with her, I am getting a big 'no, no!' from the I Ching. What are your views on this?