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40.3.4 > 46 Will x give y to z?

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I haven't posted for some time, I need to gain some clarity before going into the holidays and was hoping I could get some help with my ongoing issues :brickwall:. Having won the parental order in July the only thing left unestablished is our sons inheritance but it's an ongoing struggle.

When separating from his wife in 2004, he provided a ½ a million-dollar home to his older children. In 2015 we sold our home and he spent that money (our sons’ inheritance) on his batch. He has chosen to leave that to all of his children and I think that’s unfair.

Will x give y to z?
That is, will my x give the batch to our son?

40.3.4 > 46

40 Release
To turn around and come back is good fortune. With a direction to go, Daybreak, good fortune.'
To 'release' is to liberate, to solve problems, to untie knots.

This sounds extremely positive. :D

Line 3 'Shouldering a burden while also riding in a carriage, Invites the arrival of bandits.
Constancy, shame.'

I think this is where he is now, while he has ignored his youngest son (burden) he’s flaunting the batch to friends and family. Perhaps I am the bandit, perhaps the legal system. If he continues he will be shamed as I could have but didn’t take half in our separation.

Line 4 'Releasing the thumbs also. Partners arrive, hence truth and confidence.'

Wilhelm says Deliver yourself from your great toe. Then the companion comes, and him you can trust.

I am hoping that he will release the need to be associated with his wife, other children and previous wealth. So our son can go to him and trust that he has his best interests at heart.

46 'Pushing upward, creating success from the source. Make use of seeing great people.

I don’t usually look at other threads until I’ve formed an opinion. While my opinion here would be positive. I note the transitional hex 32.4 46 “No game in the field.” Is not my favourite… at all lol.

:duh: Is there light or am I dreaming?

Am I right to take this stand against him? 47.5 > 40

I think so, “shows its subject continuously maintaining the virtue”. I haven’t taken my decision lightly and have spoken to friends, family and even a pastor about the situation and my decision.

How can I best move forward? And I got 47.5 > 40 again.

With Christmas coming and our sons 8th birthday, it will be our third without his father. It weighs heavily on me, though our son seems not to care.

I know you’re all probably busy but I’d really appreciate any insight anyone has on this. I assume he will contact crying to see our son and while it’s hard, I intend to say no. :weep:

Thanks all in advance <3

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