Since 4 months I have been working at what I believed would be my dreamjob. I got it almost immediately after graduating and I couldn't believe my luck when I got it. There where a lot of people applying for my job, most of them with much more experience then me. I work together with alot of people with different specializations. There is one colleague who does what I do and she has over 16 years of experience in the field. She always worked alone before they created my job. I was looking up to her in the beginning, hoping we would get to work together so that I could learn from her. That we would have a 'click'. Sadly this has not been the case at all. She does give me feedback when I ask for it but that's about it. I have seen her on much more familiar terms with her intern a few months ago, so I can't help but starting to think that she just doesn't like me or approve of me... She acts reserved around me, neutral where as she can be really familiar with other colleagues. I was hoping that by now she would have warmed up to me a little but no such luck. I love doing my job as a drug counsellor and I get to learn something new every day. It would help if my colleague would warm up a little to me though. I still have a lot of insecurities and I don't feel like I can really rely on my colleague for support.
I asked Yi: What does my colleague want from me? Hexagram 3.1.3 to 39
I think it says that are is trouble at the beginning and that she wants me to ask for help more? But I go about it the wrong way? :brickwall:
I feel biased an this reading, objective insights would be so helpful!
I asked Yi: What does my colleague want from me? Hexagram 3.1.3 to 39
I think it says that are is trouble at the beginning and that she wants me to ask for help more? But I go about it the wrong way? :brickwall:
I feel biased an this reading, objective insights would be so helpful!