Tricky answers 55.3.4>24

Sometimes I find answers can be tricky to really know what they're saying as there can be sooooo many variables on the answer - do we go with our emotion, our desire or our 'gut' feeling when we look for an interpretation:

My question is based on a potential relationship that ended before it even got started -

What do I need to know about my connection with him

Hexagram 55.3.4>24

An Abundant Return - now is that Return to self in Fullness or he Returns and the relationship between us are going to knows no bounds.

In Line 3 there was a 'Thunderous' Hexagram 51 moment (or two) which led to misunderstandings and the breakdown of the relationship.
The breakup of the relationship upset me a lot - again perhaps Hex 51 fits here too and my initial response was to close myself again, against meeting anyone new.

However in Line 4 through the Hexagram 36 Hiding my Light initially, my process actually has allowed me to realise, that by closing myself up I'm missing out on wonderful experiences in my life for something I wasn't to blame for.
So instead of closing my Heart I have worked on opening my Heart up more and more which to me then reflects the Fullness of Hex 55.

I guess this post should really be in Exploring Divination if someone wants to move it. Thanks