34 unchanging

Hi Everyone - this is my first post. I live in Western Europe and practice with I Ching for several years, slowly growing my knowledge about this wonderful bridge between the universe and us. Here's my question and a quote for advice:I asked whether I should invite a woman who is one of my coworkers to a party and escalate sexually (we are both attracted towards each other, but we are working closely - in a physical proximity, that is - so I know this is not a best idea, so I wasn't doing anything so far) - I asked the oracle about this, and got Hexagram 34 - unchanging. After checking out http://www.jamesdekorne.com/GBCh/hex34.htm looks like I should abstain from this, as: "Without changing lines, the hexagram sometimes refers to provocations in which one is "legitimately” tempted to a self-righteous display of "power.” Remember that other people's ego-trips are none of your concern: the superior man does not respond to them with other than dignified reserve. Regard it as a test and be joyful if you pass it!"" It is too easy to misinterpret this hexagram as a clear injunction to take unilateral action. Such is seldom the case -- the hexagram depicts a charge of latent energy which must be properly managed."But I am still tempted! Please do advice - only on this hexagram meaning when unchanged.