I would like to ask you about hexagram 44. I received 44.2.4.6 to 39 and my question was: What can I do in a practical way to find a partner?
I am on a dating site and there are some nice guys around me at work. Right now I dont feel any of them close to me but we spend time together. My instinct says though that none of them is my man because I just dont feel it, I don't trust them, conversation just doesn't flow. But I try to get to know them better. I dont want to be too closed and selective.
I was reading interpretations about 44 and in one of the interpretation I found:
44 suggests that you are currently too strong and unruly to marry - too demanding of your man in bed (2), over work (3), and his likes (4) - until he blows up (6).
And other:
Hex 44.2 be of good cheer and don't let someone's bad mood bring you down.
Hex 44.4 be polite and courteous to all you meet.
Hex 44.6 if you meet up with a tedious and tiresome bozo, walk away and take no notice of them. :)
I also found this:
https://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/hex_33-48/hex_e_44.htm
For 44.2 says that one should preserve himself from a mixture of influences, then 44.4 is about being too unapproachable.
I think 44 has also connotations to temptation and adultery. It seems so complicated that actually I dont understand it at all.
Thanks a lot for any opinion, I would be very greatful to receive any.
I am on a dating site and there are some nice guys around me at work. Right now I dont feel any of them close to me but we spend time together. My instinct says though that none of them is my man because I just dont feel it, I don't trust them, conversation just doesn't flow. But I try to get to know them better. I dont want to be too closed and selective.
I was reading interpretations about 44 and in one of the interpretation I found:
44 suggests that you are currently too strong and unruly to marry - too demanding of your man in bed (2), over work (3), and his likes (4) - until he blows up (6).
And other:
Hex 44.2 be of good cheer and don't let someone's bad mood bring you down.
Hex 44.4 be polite and courteous to all you meet.
Hex 44.6 if you meet up with a tedious and tiresome bozo, walk away and take no notice of them. :)
I also found this:
https://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/hex_33-48/hex_e_44.htm
For 44.2 says that one should preserve himself from a mixture of influences, then 44.4 is about being too unapproachable.
I think 44 has also connotations to temptation and adultery. It seems so complicated that actually I dont understand it at all.
Thanks a lot for any opinion, I would be very greatful to receive any.