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I want to buy a home but there is so much I need to figure out first. 14,1 to 50

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I need to make some big decisions, soon, but I can't decide. I currently live with my male friend who is not the love of my life. We are just really good friends. He's currently away on vacation for a few weeks. I am going to move out, one way or another, I just don't know where or when. And I would like to buy an apartment (that's what people do here in Sweden).

My job is really far away from where I live, and I have been seriously late a few times due to delays with the train. I am a temp who has worked there for a long time, and was recently denied a permanent position, since I have been late a few too many times. Of course, it's much easier to get approved for a bank loan if your job is permanent.

I could definitely afford an apartment close to my work, since it's sort of a low-rent suburb. However, if I didn't work there, I would rather live closer to Stockholm, or at least in a nicer neighborhood.

But I could also be going back to school part-time. I haven't heard back from the university yet. Or I could find another job, since the job I have is not exactly my dream job.

If I can't get a loan, I could rent a room in someone else's home, closer to work, and aim for the next permanent position that is coming in December. By law, they have to come up with a good reason to not hire me. Renting an apartment first-hand is not an option because of the long lines here in Sweden.

I asked "what do I need to focus on this week?" And received 14 changing line 1, going to 50

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