Good morning good people,
I have a final court hearing tomorrow and had a sleepless night struggling with this question.
I have heard dreadful stories about X' s behaviour. They come from a reliable source although X' s involvement as perpetrator or just a witness is a grey area. His previous behaviour makes his character doubtful.
I want my son to have a father but what kind of influence would he be.
I asked Should X have access to Y. Hexagram 9.2.3.6 to 3
9 to 3 would suggest it's difficult even doing small things.
Line 2 It's good to withdraw
Line 3 Communication is non existent
Line 6 I have grieved over this and have some peace in it. If I push things will get ugly. Things are coming to a head. Am I the noble one? If so my decisions will come to no good. I think the judge is the noble one. And his decisions will lead to no good.
I'm not finding much guidance in this...
So I asked What attitude should I have towards X? And got hexagram 28.2.4 to 39
I should recognise my extreme emotions are causing an impasse. Line 2 Good relations Line 4 Keep the faith and I will find a solution.
Faith I guess. Is all I need. Settle myself and go through this.
It's so hard to see the forest here. I hope I'm seeing this right. Are there warnings here that I'm missing? Am I right to be concerned? Or are my emotions going to ultimately hurt my son.
Any thoughts or views would be most welcome. I'm quite strong so you can be sure I won't take offence or be defensive.
Thank you in advance and God Bless.
I have a final court hearing tomorrow and had a sleepless night struggling with this question.
I have heard dreadful stories about X' s behaviour. They come from a reliable source although X' s involvement as perpetrator or just a witness is a grey area. His previous behaviour makes his character doubtful.
I want my son to have a father but what kind of influence would he be.
I asked Should X have access to Y. Hexagram 9.2.3.6 to 3
9 to 3 would suggest it's difficult even doing small things.
Line 2 It's good to withdraw
Line 3 Communication is non existent
Line 6 I have grieved over this and have some peace in it. If I push things will get ugly. Things are coming to a head. Am I the noble one? If so my decisions will come to no good. I think the judge is the noble one. And his decisions will lead to no good.
I'm not finding much guidance in this...
So I asked What attitude should I have towards X? And got hexagram 28.2.4 to 39
I should recognise my extreme emotions are causing an impasse. Line 2 Good relations Line 4 Keep the faith and I will find a solution.
Faith I guess. Is all I need. Settle myself and go through this.
It's so hard to see the forest here. I hope I'm seeing this right. Are there warnings here that I'm missing? Am I right to be concerned? Or are my emotions going to ultimately hurt my son.
Any thoughts or views would be most welcome. I'm quite strong so you can be sure I won't take offence or be defensive.
Thank you in advance and God Bless.