Hey all,
So after my last thread, you will be glad to know that I have made an effort to move on from my ex! *dancing*
I recently spent my birthday abroad and whilst I was there, I met someone who has reaaaaalllllyyyyy sparked my interest.
The kicker? He lives in a different country :( However, we still speak quite often and in depth - sending voicenotes etc. (yay for globalisation and WhatsApp). I am trying to make arrangements to visit him in the US in September and I think we are both quite excited to see each other again.
Obviously, my concern is about the long term and what this could potentially morph into. Yes, we are getting on now and we are planning to visit each other; but the distance makes me somewhat nervous. It is early days, but he has already made it quite clear that he doesn't really have an interest moving to my country (the UK), but I am open to moving to his - I think - eventually (if it ever went that way!). He already knows this from a prior conversation that we had on holiday.
I have pulled a few iChings and I think I am being told to slow down and relax lol. I asked the IChing two questions:
1. Will X commit to me? - Answer: 31.1.4 > 63
Hexagram 31 suggests that there is an attraction between us - even from our first meeting and time together, we both felt it. I think the attraction grows the more we communicate. James DeKorne's website says of Line 1 'don't cross your bridges until you come to them' and 'a mind seething with great schemes and intentions.' Of Lline 4, the website says 'Let it be - allow the situation to unfold.'
So yeaaaaah... I think I am being told off.
2. Is there long term romantic potential with me and X? - Answer: 45 UC
Gathering Together unchanging seems like a positive omen to me. It seems to suggest that there is something there and this is good. However, I have read that an unchanging hexagram is indicative of stifled energy and the inability of a hexagram to reach its full potential.
Any thoughts? Is there a better question that I can ask in relation to this situation?
So after my last thread, you will be glad to know that I have made an effort to move on from my ex! *dancing*
I recently spent my birthday abroad and whilst I was there, I met someone who has reaaaaalllllyyyyy sparked my interest.
The kicker? He lives in a different country :( However, we still speak quite often and in depth - sending voicenotes etc. (yay for globalisation and WhatsApp). I am trying to make arrangements to visit him in the US in September and I think we are both quite excited to see each other again.
Obviously, my concern is about the long term and what this could potentially morph into. Yes, we are getting on now and we are planning to visit each other; but the distance makes me somewhat nervous. It is early days, but he has already made it quite clear that he doesn't really have an interest moving to my country (the UK), but I am open to moving to his - I think - eventually (if it ever went that way!). He already knows this from a prior conversation that we had on holiday.
I have pulled a few iChings and I think I am being told to slow down and relax lol. I asked the IChing two questions:
1. Will X commit to me? - Answer: 31.1.4 > 63
Hexagram 31 suggests that there is an attraction between us - even from our first meeting and time together, we both felt it. I think the attraction grows the more we communicate. James DeKorne's website says of Line 1 'don't cross your bridges until you come to them' and 'a mind seething with great schemes and intentions.' Of Lline 4, the website says 'Let it be - allow the situation to unfold.'
So yeaaaaah... I think I am being told off.
2. Is there long term romantic potential with me and X? - Answer: 45 UC
Gathering Together unchanging seems like a positive omen to me. It seems to suggest that there is something there and this is good. However, I have read that an unchanging hexagram is indicative of stifled energy and the inability of a hexagram to reach its full potential.
Any thoughts? Is there a better question that I can ask in relation to this situation?