Dear community,
there is a man that I really, really like. The first time we looked deeper in each others eyes, it was so flashing -- at least for me, and I think, for him as well. Then I asked the I-Ching about the issue and my result was 13.5<30.
My first thought was, oh wow, that is fitting absolutely... but then I thought that reads to well to be true and indeed, since we work together and are in private circumstances that allowed no further contact, I didn't hold on to it. Plus, I met another guy with whom I was a year and a half together then. After we broke up, I worked again with that first guy, looked in his eyes again... much to deep, asked the Yi and the result was 13.5 < 30 again. Since that time I asked the Yi too often, the result were sometimes good, sometimes bad and as confusing as the situation between the two of us is itself.
Really, I think I love him and I hope and think that he shares these feelings.. but at the moment we avoid each other in order to avoid more confusions or even trouble. I am a good actor, and he as well. Or possibly, he already decided to stay away from me. But he can't help to stare at me secretly whenever we see each other.
I know after a lot of research that a lot of you here are sceptical when it comes to 13.5 <30. It seems to remind too much on a hollywood movie happy end ;)
I guess, either it promises a good end -- or it simply and only shows that this person and me are truly fond of each other and there will be short glimpses of recognition and then doubts will overcome us again. Like a ever revolving cycle of recognition and doubts.
I would prefer the first possibility of course.
So, dear community. What would you recommend to me? Should I show him my love, regardless to anything else, whatever may be the outcome between us, maybe 'just' a deep spiritual friendship.
Or should I stay modest, distanced, adjusted to the outer circumstances and just be glad that sometimes we catch each others glare... and hopefully recognition outweighs confusion a the end, even it doesn't lead to *anything* further?
Thanks in advance, I really appreciate your answers.
blackmilk
there is a man that I really, really like. The first time we looked deeper in each others eyes, it was so flashing -- at least for me, and I think, for him as well. Then I asked the I-Ching about the issue and my result was 13.5<30.
My first thought was, oh wow, that is fitting absolutely... but then I thought that reads to well to be true and indeed, since we work together and are in private circumstances that allowed no further contact, I didn't hold on to it. Plus, I met another guy with whom I was a year and a half together then. After we broke up, I worked again with that first guy, looked in his eyes again... much to deep, asked the Yi and the result was 13.5 < 30 again. Since that time I asked the Yi too often, the result were sometimes good, sometimes bad and as confusing as the situation between the two of us is itself.
Really, I think I love him and I hope and think that he shares these feelings.. but at the moment we avoid each other in order to avoid more confusions or even trouble. I am a good actor, and he as well. Or possibly, he already decided to stay away from me. But he can't help to stare at me secretly whenever we see each other.
I know after a lot of research that a lot of you here are sceptical when it comes to 13.5 <30. It seems to remind too much on a hollywood movie happy end ;)
I guess, either it promises a good end -- or it simply and only shows that this person and me are truly fond of each other and there will be short glimpses of recognition and then doubts will overcome us again. Like a ever revolving cycle of recognition and doubts.
I would prefer the first possibility of course.
So, dear community. What would you recommend to me? Should I show him my love, regardless to anything else, whatever may be the outcome between us, maybe 'just' a deep spiritual friendship.
Or should I stay modest, distanced, adjusted to the outer circumstances and just be glad that sometimes we catch each others glare... and hopefully recognition outweighs confusion a the end, even it doesn't lead to *anything* further?
Thanks in advance, I really appreciate your answers.
blackmilk