So a short while ago I received some tragic news that directly affects both myself & a close friend.
I had to tell him via text as he was out of coverage & it was quite urgent that he knew.
So when he actually got the text he text back with an emoji & that he'd talk later when he got back. Which struck me as odd; sending an emoji with the seriousness of the situation? So we talked & texted back & forth over the nxt few days, I didn't bring it up as it was quite upsetting but did expect him to ask questions, ask for details, offer sympathy or compassion, I waited but he never mentioned it. Which again I thought a really odd & frankly a very cold reaction (or non reaction)
So a little under a week after telling him, some medical reports were due back soon so I asked if he'd like to know the results & he rang me very angry, shouting at me about how I worded the text! I still don't know how he could take offence; it was telling him the tests would be back soon & asking if he'd like to know, I didn't know as he hadn't mentioned it at all.
I ended up hanging up as he was being totally irrational & upsetting me. That was over a week ago, We haven't spoken since.
I'm extremely disappointed in him & frankly disgusted at him completely ignoring a serious & heartbreaking scenario that required immediate action, care & comfort. I'm actually even questioning whether I can remain friends with someone so seemingly selfish & callous.
So I asked:
How will scolding him for the emoji be received? 40.3.5 > 28
(it has really annoyed me that his only acknowledgement of it has been an emoji!)
How will texting him the details of the ongoing scenario be received? 18.3.5.6 >29
Hex 40 & line 5 sound good. but line 3 says about being with in enemies reach & 28 seems to be about a collapse.
Hex 18 - work on what has been spoilt. Line 3 & 5 speak about setting right what has been spoilt, but line 6 seems to speak of an important issue that doesn't matter to one of the parties. Hex 29 I'm never sure how to read.
Anyone care to share some input on these lines?
Also is there any significance to getting 28 & 29 in that order, about the same topic/person?
I had to tell him via text as he was out of coverage & it was quite urgent that he knew.
So when he actually got the text he text back with an emoji & that he'd talk later when he got back. Which struck me as odd; sending an emoji with the seriousness of the situation? So we talked & texted back & forth over the nxt few days, I didn't bring it up as it was quite upsetting but did expect him to ask questions, ask for details, offer sympathy or compassion, I waited but he never mentioned it. Which again I thought a really odd & frankly a very cold reaction (or non reaction)
So a little under a week after telling him, some medical reports were due back soon so I asked if he'd like to know the results & he rang me very angry, shouting at me about how I worded the text! I still don't know how he could take offence; it was telling him the tests would be back soon & asking if he'd like to know, I didn't know as he hadn't mentioned it at all.
I ended up hanging up as he was being totally irrational & upsetting me. That was over a week ago, We haven't spoken since.
I'm extremely disappointed in him & frankly disgusted at him completely ignoring a serious & heartbreaking scenario that required immediate action, care & comfort. I'm actually even questioning whether I can remain friends with someone so seemingly selfish & callous.
So I asked:
How will scolding him for the emoji be received? 40.3.5 > 28
(it has really annoyed me that his only acknowledgement of it has been an emoji!)
How will texting him the details of the ongoing scenario be received? 18.3.5.6 >29
Hex 40 & line 5 sound good. but line 3 says about being with in enemies reach & 28 seems to be about a collapse.
Hex 18 - work on what has been spoilt. Line 3 & 5 speak about setting right what has been spoilt, but line 6 seems to speak of an important issue that doesn't matter to one of the parties. Hex 29 I'm never sure how to read.
Anyone care to share some input on these lines?
Also is there any significance to getting 28 & 29 in that order, about the same topic/person?