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Third dinner date in January? Hex 45,4.-8.

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Hi all,

There's this new man that I have in mind but we're taking a break right now. I wanted to know if whenever we reconcile, if he is going to go on a third/double dinner date with my friend and her boyfriend. I just need to know if this is going to happen in January this month. Thanks!

Hexagram 45.4. To 8. It seems like this will indeed happen?! I hope so! :)

interesting: hexagram 1.1 --- overslept!

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I woke up extremely late this morning. All kids still asleep, appointments missed, house silent except for 4 agitated & slightly offended unified cats.
Just before I awoke, you know that time orientation you have when asleep? Well it was telling me that it was Saturday, or holidays, even though it is Tuesday! That dream inner self was saying... 'no worries all is fine, no stress, time here to relax, time marked off just to be'.
A very strong feeling of a peaceful bubble.

I needed the sleep though, crazy few days & a flu coming on.

So I cast Yi for today "daily reading, don't feel like disturbing the peace just yet, don't want to worry about everyone late, or get my head in a flap. AmIright You, just stay in this bubble my inner dream mind created? "

And I cast hexagram 1.1
Line 1:
Quote:

"Hidden Dragon: do not act"
Well that says it all to me really!
That's exactly how I feel - still submerged haha

I was thinking, I know Yi 'cares' a lot about your integrity in interactions with others, but does it care about missed appointments vs sleep?
Seems to me that the Yi values my inner peace of mind and staying whole above haring off trying to catch up with things.

Just thought I'd share it, but I'm wondering, does it go in Shared Readings, or Exploring Divination?

Some travel advice please!

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Question - Should I travel to Greece in MayAnswer - hexagram 33, line 4,5 and 6. Would this be advantageous to 'retreat' as in from my current situation, or to 'retreat' from the travel plans?very confusing for a newbie!Thanks.

47.1 > 58: A long-term problem -- perhaps with my own attitude

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Hello, All. This is my first post. I have a problem which I've allowed to grow completely out of control, and has become a major detriment to my happiness and progress. If it is possible to become addicted to a person similarly to how one might become addicted to drugs, then I believe that sums up the issue.

Two and a half years ago, I met "Tom" and at first I did not think much of him: He was a friend of a friend, and as it turned out, his profession and means of support were under a cloud for a time. Well, not for us, but for the world, yes. But as the weeks progressed, and he expressed more and more interest in spending time with me, I found myself looking forward more and more to our evenings together.

A few weeks later, I was surprised to find myself completely head-over-heels infatuated with him. I am a grown man in my 40s in a fairly high-profile career with some serious fiduciary responsibilities, and here I was getting all twitterpated over a 30-something artist--he showed me programs from some gallery shows that had run in another town years previously--who was supplementing his income with some relatively innocuous but not strictly above-board business dealings. :duh: Right.

Because of my position I felt I could help generate some publicity for his art, once he started painting again. I was under the impression that we had a romantic relationship, because we had been intimate a couple times when he spent the night at my place when it was too late to drive 80 km to his home in a neighboring county.

When he sublet a room in my town, I thought it a good omen. Of course, it also meant his business dealings began taking up more of his time, and we weren't spending evenings at my place anymore. We would spend all our time at his, where there were a lot of people coming and going. I began to grow frustrated and I despaired that we'd ever find time alone together. When I brought up these concerns, he reassured me that he was just busy and had a lot on his mind.

This is the first time I've written this account as a narrative, and as I look at the preceding paragraph, I realize with horror just how ridiculous I am. I can't really say why I didn't realize that there was something seriously amiss. He is very charming and manipulative, and, I mean, every time I was to see him, I would get butterflies in my stomach 20 minutes before.

I never thought at my age I'd experience that again. It seemed miraculous. Later, it seemed much less so, because I think we forget how wonderful love isn't when things go wrong.

It may help clarify my cluelessness a bit if I explain that at this time, I had just recovered from a serious illness that required chemotherapy. For about 18 months, I had been bald, emaciated, sickly-looking with no eyebrows and my weekly schedule was filled with doctor appointments and followups. There is a sort of unreality that sets in during an experience like this, and it lingered through what became a brisk recovery: My hair had grown back, and I had gained back only a portion of my previous weight--to tell the truth, I had seldom looked better in my life. People would compliment me on my appearance and ask my secret. "Cancer," became my customary blithe reply, but inside i was glowing and I was getting a promotion at work and things were really going my way.

This is exactly the point at which Tom materialized in my life. He seemed very attentive and it was really the first time in my life I had felt genuinely attractive. Also, I was determined to live the rest of my life differently, to open myself up to new experiences, unbound by the chains of convention--and so, when a new roommate materialized, a much younger man in his 20s, and Tom was forced to share not just his single room but his bed with this unfortunate soul who was on hard times, I took it in stride. We became the Three Musketeers, and I believed Tom when he told me he was not even attracted to immature men like that--"But give 'im about 10 years and watch out"--like me, Tom preferred the more mature type, and the only drawback was that now there was really no possibility for intimacy between Tom and me.

One rare morning, the roommate (of the room) as well as the roommate (of the flat) were both out, and I found myself alone with Tom. So, seizing the opportunity, I cornered him on the balcony and drew him into my embrace with what I hoped was a passionate and sexy confidence, while he ... sort of ... just went limp and ... he didn't pull away, exactly, but my ardent embrace was not returned and I began to feel a bit ashamed and more than a bit humiliated, and he finally sort of extracted himself, ducking first under one arm and then the other--and that's when we had The Talk.

It was the first of many similar talks, and it was probably the most civil, though for me not the least painful and frustrating.

He explained that he was going through a celibate period in order to assist his spiritual development and ultimately his art. I believed him.I asked if this meant we were never going to be together, and he assured me it did not. It was just a matter of a few weeks, months at most; he had learned the technique from a mystic, he said and it really helped his creativity flourish.

"Oh, so you're doing kundalini yoga?" I asked.

"Huh? What's that?" :duh: :duh: :duh:

I explained how some said it was beneficial to build up the root chakra libido so that the serpent awakened, ascending the spine, and--

"Oh, yeah, it's something like that." :ouch:

Then some roommate or other arrived home and, seeing us on the balcony, came out to investigate.

I made my excuses and a hasty retreat but did not make it all the way to my car before hot tears of frustration began to spill. What had I gotten myself into?

At this point, I'm going to omit the following two chapters of what's bound to be a substantial portion of my memoir and jump ahead two years. During that time, I developed a full-fledged obsession over Tom. For a few months, he lived in my guest room, and then I helped him move into a place of his own because I didn't want the foot traffic at my house.

It was some time before I fully realized just how much of a sucker I have been.

Still, there is a part of me that continues, despite all evidence that I am the biggest fool of them all, and that I have been played well and good, and several times, and rather hard, and both my personal life and my career have suffered because of it--to hold out hope. The fact is I can't look at him without melting. I believed for a year that he was my soul-mate.

A gentleman my own age whom I dated years and years ago came back into my life briefly last year, and it might have turned into something quite serious, except I was unable to come to terms with Tom, and I'm not proud of my behavior by a long shot.

Over this time, I have cast the coins hundreds of times with respect to Tom and some new indignity or other, and the Yi seems determined to answer my question on those terms, even sometimes seeming to humor me about the fact of Tom's and my "relationship" but never pulling punches when it comes time to predict that it will all end in tears, as it often does with Tom, and they're never his tears.

At this point I'm told I've been reduced to something of a laughing stock, and he has a houseful of doubtful types constantly crashing there, and I believe he's building an army of homeless people or something like that--I'm not really sure, he hardly talks to me when I'm over there.

He hasn't returned a text or a phone call except to brusquely order a car or to argue violently with me since September 2016.

I am such an old fool; I will be 50 this year, and this can't go on. The ****er ought to be jailed as far as I'm concerned. But I cannot seem to extricate myself from his clutches for more than a few weeks or a couple months at a time. When Emily Dickinson wrote that "Hope is the thing with feathers," I think she meant that hope is a bloody piss-poor and uncomfortable object to have lodged in one's belly for so long.

I realized today that I had only ever consulted the Yi regarding the specifics of some particular situation or other with regard to Tom, and so today I asked:

Why did Tom come into my life? What lesson is there to learn that could possibly make all this worthwhile?

And I received 47.1 > 58

I have become accustomed to think of Tom and myself in terms of predator and victim, and I have developed a kind of learned helplessness; I have been wracked with self-doubt because I have allowed him to define who I am, and that is an unattractive old dude (note: I'm seven years his senior, and we're both Gen-X) who is kind of a fool and sometimes you have to listen to his stories but he can usually be counted on for a ride and some cash when necessary.

And, needless to say, the sexual component of our "relationship" never did resume. I know now that he's basically flogging it all over town. And I'm determined to be nonjudgmental and it's even rather exciting that he's so unconventional, but I've been reduced to hoping for a little bit on the side now and then, which I’ve been summarily denied, and whenever the subject comes up, he acts horrified like I'm some kind of sex maniac, and I suffer humiliation the likes of which I would never wish upon anyone, and he still expects me to believe that he lives a sanitary rather saintly existence helping all of these men and women “get back on their feet” while he enjoys temporary arrangements in various combinations and permutations which always exclude me.

I've had enough and I need to learn my lesson so I can close the chapter on this a**hole.

Any thoughts?

tl;dr: I got taken for a fool by a scoundrel and I can't seem to get over it.

33.1.4 to 37 friendship question!

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Hello everyone! I'm so new here. I decided to post this question I made with i ching because I cant' really get the reason why this guy I just met did just disappear. We went to the same university, I added him on facebook, we chatted a lot, and then after some months I invited him to help me out on something, so he saw me and I also noticed he was changed a lot respect to the past...
He seemed really attracted to me and a bit nervous, and no I'm not ugly at all ;) perhaps he just thought I was different from him, but then when he left he didn't ask my telephone number.

So, the question was: why did he leave like that?
I ching was : 33.1.4 Retreat to 37 The community (family)
well, 'till the retreat it's not hard to understand...it perfectly fits the situation xD XD
line 1 talks about the retreat
line 4 says that the great man is ok with that, and that there's a voluntary retreat (big pig)
but i can't get the REAL reason especially because then there's the Family ching

could it be that he has got already some kind of love affair?!

39.5.6 to 52 question about study!!

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hello, i asked if my dissertation is ok 'cuz basically deadline has come and I'm exhausted, i don't know what to correct and if i forgot about something (and its very easy for it to happen D:).
39 Obstruction/uncertainty
39.5 - Problems that cannot be solved alone, one receives a visit when they needed it.
-> ok, maybe the teacher will do something or someone (i dont know who XD) will help somehow.


39.6 - One asks friends who distanced themselves to come back. -> uhm, ok but then has this obstacled been overcome?


then the 52. Can it just be that I have nothing else to do?XD

I'm really worried because this consultation doesn't actually sounds the best you could get from I Ching :( :( !!!
Please, tell me something good about it

Can anyone help me with these readings?

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I am a total novice at i Ching:My first question was "should I take the new job if it is offered to me?" and Yi's answer was, 34.1.2 to 62Then I asked without typing it in the box just to the room with my eyes closed, what I should do with my life, in a general sense--I left Italy after 22 years there, to come back to Canada which is my original home, 5 years ago. I have a stressful job and a terrible boss here for the last 5 years but still that beautiful home in Italy. But I stay here because my wonderful kids are at college here and they are so happy here and we have a nice house here. But I don't think I can stand my job anymore but at 54 years old do I look for a new job or figure out how to afford going back to Italy? And I love this city I want to be here and there....And Yi's answer was 51.4 to 24. It seems like a direct answer to my thoughts! It made me burst into tears. But am I reading this properly? Regarding both readings, what should I glean from all this?

42.1.5 > 23 Confusing casts on romance

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I'm confused about the following casts related to a woman who I've been very attracted to for several years. She recently messaged me to say she hoped I'd attend a social dance because it had been 'far too long.' I did, and we danced several times, ending with slow dance where she got very close. It felt wonderful - hard to let go, which I told her.

The connection felt as strong as ever, or stronger, although several times in the past I've been disappointed by feeling an intense connection that didn't really go anywhere. Maybe this time?

I asked Yi: Please comment on this continued strong attraction between us. Result: 61 uc

From looking at other posts, this seems to suggest looking within - that I know the answer about this. Hmmm? If so, I'm not seeing it.

The next day, I asked: Please comment further on how I can best hold my strong attraction for her and how to best proceed at this time. Result: 39.3 > 8.

This didn't seem very encouraging. Some sources suggest withdrawing, going back to the previous way of things, of danger. However, Karcher says something like 'Stay within at this time. Things are reversing and soon there will be reason to rejoice." So, is something going to turn around?

Later that same day, all this still occupying my thoughts, I asked: Romance with her? Please comment. Result: 42.1.5 > 23.

This seems a bit contradictory in that 42.1.5 seems very favorable, but 23 as almost the opposite. If seen in sequence it doesn't bode well, though most interpretations seem to view the second hexagram as contextual and not predictive.

I realize this attraction is one that has been extremely hard for me to let go of - and that I have a bias that makes is hard to see the guidance in these casts. To me, it seems like it could go either direction.

Last night, I got together with her and another friend for dinner, as we do occasionally. It was a nice evening and we interacted well, though I still feel rather tied up inside and anxious since things haven't worked out in the past. I'm also very reluctant to just be direct about this with her.

I'd like to think that the right relationship would unfold without a lot of internal strife. Perhaps my anxiety is more of a reading than the hexagrams - although that tends to be my nature in general - but still I'm confused by Yi's response.

I'll appreciate it if you see anything in this that might give me a bit more direction - or if there is another question you suggest I ask.

Thanks very much.

Jealousy 64.2 to 55

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Question : guidance on the primitive negative emotions I experience about Vlad’s entanglement in the family coffers ? Reading: 64.1.2.3.6 to 55. Someone whom am very fond of is involved in long term haggling over the family coffers . I feel unexpected jealousy / envy about the great wealth . I know all these truisms about wealth doesn’t mean happiness and I see the suffering Vlad has to go through but it’s like an unbidden primitive jealousy rises up in me and I think as a child does why can’t I have that .... I see the readings as follows : 64.1 wet tail not quite across with this issue. 64.2 don’t allow anxiety to drive me. 64.3 make the transition and see things from Vlads perspective. 64.6 things will be well if a certain propriety is observed . ... 55 relating ❓❓❓

10.5 to 38 reaction

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Me and my ex we are trying to put things right and make a new start. The thing is he worries about my parents after what happened and what I told them. Ok I am worried too.

What will be the reaction of my parents If I talk to them that we are back together?
hexagram 10 line 5 to hexagram 38.

Ouch! that looks bad!
There will be trouble, there will be danger, there will be peril :(:weep:
Please let me know what do you think.

Timeprogress in the hexagram - a draft

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I'm working on a little article on how I see time and our position in relation to the hexagram.


Link

A Hexagram 58 situation

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Dear All,

Been a while :) and I am back with some questions about the situation with a guy. This is a person I bump into from time to time, and based on our somewhat awkward interaction, I do not know how to interpret our connection.
I asked the Iching to give me an overall perspective of the situation with this person: 58 unchanging.

I am about to cast for the second time to how to interact with him:
Hexagram 11.2.4 -> 55.

Please accept my not interpreting it first as me being quite blank with my own readings. I would love to hear about the opinions of those friends which are willing to help with their take on this.

Thank you, :hug:

37.3.4 to 25 about where/what to do internship

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Good afternoon!
My question is about what to do after graduation, because I have to apply for internship (apprenticeship in one or two different places for some time).
I asked :"where should I do that?"
Because I'm feeling lost. I mean, no more still routine...i have to choose and find my way.

I ching was: 37.3.4 to 25
Which says:

How Many Books On The I Ching Do You Own?

51.4>24 28.1,4,5,6>26 about a relationship

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good morning. I started a relationship with a man last year. I made some mistakes during the first few months of the relationship, for lack of trust in him (because I had a bad experience before) and this thing bothered him.So the situation wasn't the best, until became untenable for me and I decided to cut off.After few months, for his birthday I sent him a message and we have begun dating again.But now, after a month, I notice there is something wrong. I consulted Yi with 2 questionThe first is: is there any chance of building a peaceful and lasting relationship with X?The result was 51.4> 24that is at this moment I am in the mud and I have no possibility of movement, but the final result will be positive (24)?The other question was: how is the situation between me and X now?28.1,4,5,6> 26This reading is a bit more difficult for me, because so many lines create confusion.I thought that not acting is the solution, but I'm not sure.thanks

14.1,4,5>57 new activity

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Hello.I would like to start a new activity, I would like to collaborate with someone who already works in a similarfield.I asked Yi how to move to start working, the answer was 14.1,4,5> 57I must say that right now I'm not doing anything.Long ago, I have made contact with someone interested, nothing happened, but 2 consultancy during the first week. The work will be with customers of shops.I am insecure and therefore I continue to postpone the action.

Blog post: Not knowing about dodder

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Hexagram 4 has an exceptionally clear, direct Oracle:
‘Not knowing, creating success.
I do not seek the young ignoramus, the young ignoramus seeks me.
The first consultation speaks clearly.
The second and third pollute the waters,
Polluted, and hence not speaking.
Constancy bears fruit.’
It’s often the one that gives people their first sense that Yi has a voice of its own and is talking to them, personally. And it’s a coherent message: the ignoramus is seeking answers, but asking again and again won’t help.
At least, it’s coherent unless you read, for instance, Rutt’s translation:
‘Offering.
“We do not seek the dodder, the dodder seeks us.”
When the first divination is auspicious,
repeated divinations are confusing, and are not auspicious.
Favourable augury.’
The same in Kunst’s thesis, and in Part II of Minford’s lovely book. As Minford explains (with a nice, long quotation), this idea is drawn from a 1933 essay by Arthur Waley. Legge said that tangmeng was ‘dodder’ (the name of the hexagram is meng); the Han dynasty dictionary/ glossary/ encyclopaedia Erya says that meng is equivalent to ‘dodder’. Waley was quite sure that ‘we do not seek the dodder, the dodder seeks us’ is a spell to ward off harm when you damage the plant.
This all seems pretty unnecessary: the text makes perfect sense as a whole with ‘ignoramus’, whereas plants aren’t known for consulting the oracle themselves. It’s not like other re-readings – for instance, ‘piglet’ for ‘retreat’ in Hexagram 33.6 gives you ‘fat piglet’ instead of ‘fat – er, wait, I mean “enriched” – retreat’. (I’m still sticking with ‘retreat’ as making more sense overall, but I can see the point of the piglet, as it were.) Geoffrey Redmond sees no need for dodder; nor does Harmen. Nor do I, really… and yet…
First, what actually is dodder, and what might it have meant to people?
It’s a wholly parasitic plant: as soon as it germinates, the seedling senses the nearest green plant and grows towards it. (If it doesn’t reach a suitable host plant within a few days, it will die.) It twines around the host plant and sinks rootlets into its stem.
Its own root now dies off, and it grows no leaves of its own – most species of dodder actually produce no chlorophyll – but grows fast, spreading from one host plant to the next. Soon, it forms a tangled mass of fine, twisting stems that covers the host plants. It flowers and sets seed. The seeds aren’t wind-borne, but carried between plants by animals and humans. (Modern farmers are warned of the dangers of carrying dodder seed between fields on their tools and boots.)
Waley observes that parasitic, rootless plants (epiphytes) are regarded as sacred in other cultures – the obvious example is mistletoe. “The epiphyte, then, which has no roots of its own, is mysteriously nurtured by Heaven, and is therefore in touch with the secrets of Heaven. Hence its importance in rites of Divination.” Redmond points to a lack of evidence that dodder had such significance in China – but it is uncanny, the plant without roots that seems to appear from nowhere.
Dodder is highly regarded in Chinese medicine as a treatment for osteoporosis, liver and kidney complaints, and as an aphrodisiac. Perhaps that’s why it’s the first plant the speaker/singer of Ode 48 plans to gather as he thinks of a willing girl:
‘I am going to gather the dodder
In the village of Mei.
Of whom do I think?
Of the lovely Meng Jiang.
She was to wait for me at Sang-Zhong,
But she went all the way to Shang-gong
And came with me to the banks of the Qi.’
Dodder is also a serious threat to farmers. It will spread diseases between plants, sap their strength and greatly reduce crop yields. However, from what I’ve been able to discover, it mostly thrives on leguminous plants, and isn’t a serious problem on grains. The soya crop was under threat, but not the millet.
Here’s how it looks:

(Richard Sears also says that the original meaning of ‘meng’ was a kind of plant; the character consists of ‘cover’ with an animal beneath it, and the plant radical. A ‘covering plant’.)
Let’s try a thought experiment, and try to substitute ‘dodder’ for ‘ignoramus’ in the line texts, translate the rest accordingly, and see if they hold together.
Line 1:
‘Sending out the ignoramus,
Fruitful to make use of punishing people,
To make use of loosening fetters and manacles.
Going on in that way is shameful.’
Now… the verb here is fa and means literally an arrow fired from the bow, and more generally ‘send out, distribute, expand’. Waley suggested that this referred to pulling the dodder free from its host plant. Perhaps it does. However, spreading, distributing, developing, expanding, arrow-from-a-bow – that sounds more like action of the rapidly-growing plant to me. So let’s try,
‘Spreading dodder
Fruitful to make use of convicts,
To make use of loosening fetters and manacles.
Going on in that way is shameful.’
Maybe we need the convicts’ labour to clear the spreading dodder, and must loosen their shackles enough that they can work. Or maybe the epiphyte is an image for the convicts: each has flourished by parasitising others, but now we can put them to use, and not allow their spread to continue.
Line 2:
‘Bagging dodder, good fortune.
Receiving a wife, good fortune.
The son governs the home.’
Bagged dodder is valuable medicine – not least as an aphrodisiac.
Line 3:
‘Don’t take this woman.
She sees a man of bronze,
And there is no self.
No direction bears fruit.’
There is no meng in this line. Waley suggested this could refer to the bronze colour of the plant and its lack of leaves or roots; I’m not convinced.
Might we see a parasitic tendency in the woman, though?
Line 4:
‘Confining dodder.
Shame.’
The first word here is the name of Hexagram 47 – oppressed, confined, with the character that shows a plant hemmed in by walls. This looks to me like the dodder in full growth, choking and smothering its host plant. You should have tackled it while it was young.
This even fits in with the line pathway, which travels through 64.4 and 63.3 – the lines about the recurrent problem of invasions from Demon Country. Any gardener who ever tried to eradicate bindweed (a relative of dodder) will see the connection.
Line 5:
‘Young dodder.
Good fortune.’
Here’s the same ‘young dodder’ or indeed ‘young ignoramus’ as in the Oracle text. At line 5 it joins with 59, Dispersing, as the energy of the host plant is ‘dispersed’ into the dodder. (The medicinal qualities of dodder also vary depending on its host plant.)
Line 6:
‘Beating the dodder.
Fruitless to act like an outlaw,
Fruitful to resist outlaws.’
Waley saw in this line a parallel to the correct way of gathering mistletoe: it must be knocked down from its host tree, not cut with a knife. The problem with that is that outside the tropics, dodder doesn’t grow on trees like mistletoe, but entwined and rooted into soft plants. I don’t see how you could possibly dislodge it by beating – I imagine you’d just mash up the host plant and dodder together. It’s worth noting that ‘outlaws’ are also those who beat with sticks, etymologically speaking.
If the dodder is growing on your soya plants, then to beat it would certainly be counterproductive. Actually… this reminds me of many experiences of the line describing how people make enemies of themselves and ‘beat themselves up’.
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So… some ridiculous stretching, some ideas that seem as though they might be usable. What to make of this?
I think it comes out rather like Hexagram 33’s piglet. 33, in readings, means ‘Retreat’, not ‘Piglet’ – it has to, to make any sense. That, incidentally, was just as true in 1,000BC as it is now: an oracle that gave readings like…
‘What should we do about the invading foreigners?’
‘Pig!’
‘How about marrying into that clan?’
‘Pig!’
…might not have become so popular…
However, when we remember the fleeing piglet who doesn’t want to be eaten, this colours our sense of what it means to Retreat. Likewise, Hexagram 4 in readings means ‘Ignorance’ not ‘Dodder’, but thinking of the dodder can still colour our sense of what it means to be ignorant: without roots of our own, parasitic, perhaps destructively so – but also growing, potent and maybe magical.

Should I contact my landlord or... wait? Hexagram 7.4>40 Sort of urgent :)

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Some of you know that the flat I am renting turned out to be infested by the carpet beetles. My landlords promptly organized Rentokil treatment. The last treatment was on 11th December, 2017. Since then - it was all clear. Today I've noticed one fresh dead larvae in the kitchen cupboard. A quick spot check revealed two new near the fridge. All dead (means the poison on the surfaces is probably still active) but definitely looked young. This is worrying. I am not a specialist on those insects so I asked whether I should notify my landlord ASAP about this and received:
Quote:

Hexagram 7.4>40
I also asked whether maybe I shouldn't notify them just yet but first wait until/if I will spot on more of them. Received:
Quote:

Hexagram 44.4>57
What do you think about it?

My life seems to be over

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Hi all, this is the most emotional pain I've ever felt, it feels like drowning and I'm not moving, or eating, or sleeping. I've been feeling my partner of 4 years growing distant for the past month when previously we were extremely close. We shared everything, she told me she wanted us to become a family, and then all of a sudden she pulled back. It's clear that she's interested in somebody else, but she won't talk to me about it. I went away to London for 10 days, I'm returning on Monday, and I could feel before I left that this would be disastrous for me to leave. We were talking on the phone at first and everything was fine, and then suddenly she stopped texting me, she stopped calling, and now when I get in touch with her it seems like her mind is elsewhere. I asked the I ching whether or not what I was feeling was correct and I got 20.3.4>33, which indicates to me that I am correct.

I asked what was happening with her and I got 54.2>51.

I asked what was coming up in my love life and I got 54 unchanging.

I finally got her to talk to me today and when I called, one of our close friends was with her and we all chatted as friends which gave me some hope, but I also felt like the friend was just there to help my GF not have to talk to me about the issue. So I told my GF before we hung up that she could call me again later if she felt like it and she was like "yea maybe" which I could tell was a "no." I asked which of my perspectives was correctly founded and I got 22.4.5>13, which tells me that the friendly conversation we had was indeed a facade, and 38.1>64 which tells me that she doesn't want to talk to me. I asked why our friends are helping her deceive me and I got 33.1.2.4>9. I've gotten a bunch of throws involving 23 and 33 that really clearly seem to be saying "yes it's over, you need to simply move on, let these people out of your life, stop whining about it." But these are my closest friends, and my partner who I was previously so close with. I asked one last time if there is any other way to look at it and I got 43.4.5 > 11 which is saying "you're resisting the only path you can take." Which says stop trying to change the situation with sheer force of will.

It really feels like the I ching isn't giving me any positive outlook here, none of this is going to end well, I basically have to try to restart my life with entirely new people (or the few friends who aren't involved in this situation). I know this is a lot of hexes and a lot of questions, I'm normally very composed and resilient but this has really rocked me and I'm just looking for any, ANY glimmer of hope other than just "at least you get these shitty people out of your life" because that means that I wasted many years of my energy and emotional investment in people who ultimately did not care about me. I haven't slept in three days. Somebody please help me.

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Hi

I have just cast this for my weekly reading,

quite excited does anyone have any good experiences with this combination of lines?

I will be sure to update once the week plays out

Steve
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